sound advice
for 2 days in a row, i had a little talk with my friend who was facing a bit of office politics in his workplace. As usual, i listened. I have not work in such an environment b4. Because i was never in any high position last time. So, no one would want to disturb a small fly.
but i did gave a piece of my mind after listening to his story and turned out there were a few good points that he could use during his meeting. It was good to know that he could use those for his defense and attack during his meeting. I am glad i was at good help to him. But it didn’t come naturally for me, i think. It could have been many yrs of listening and watching my other friends tackling their own office politics. it is good to know also that he covered his tracks promptly.
this brings me back to my own matters now. ermm…now i realized i am such a pure gemini - always doing many things at the same time and not able to handle all. so, i am such a sloppy myself. erm…maybe i shud come out with a method. if not, my matters would pile up and i will go berzerk.
bum into an old fren the other day and the first thing she said to me, ‘John, fat already oh…’ I am not fat la. just when u reach 35, somehow the flesh will bloat more oni. u see me 40 la. sure just nice. hehe.
